What is Domestic Violence and Abuse?

Domestic violence and abuse is an unacceptable crime which affects people from all social, economic, geographical backgrounds - regardless of age, race, ethnicity, religious or sexual orientation.

In Suffolk:

• 1 in every 4 women will experience violence or abuse during their lifetime.
• on average 3 women a year are murdered by their partners or ex-partners.
• children are present or nearby in 90% of incidents.
• Male partners may also experience domestic violence, as can people in same sex relationships (please see Male victims and LGBT pages.)

Domestic violence can include physical, sexual or emotional abuse.

It could involve some of the following behaviour:

• actual or threat of physical harm
• deprivation of food, sleep or money
• biting, pushing, kicking, punching
• name calling and verbal threats
• sexual threats or forced sex
• use of weapons
• emotional blackmail
• isolation from family or friends
• imprisonment in your own home
• humiliation or belittlement
• using your children against you

Domestic violence and abuse can take many forms, and can happen repeatedly. It is a cycle of abuse that if left unchallenged will become more frequent and severe. You may be a greater risk during pregnancy or if you try to leave.